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fookg nks fnyksa dk LFkk;h ca/ku gh ugh oju~ nks ifjokjksa dk Hkh vVwV ca/ku gSA nksuks ifjokjksa esa gksus okys lq[k nq[k lekjksg ]foink ladV esa iwjk iwjk fyIr jgrs gSaA mu ifjokjksa ds laca/kh Hkh ,d nwljs ds lca/kh gks tkrs gsSaA ,sls esa ;g cgqr vko';d gS fd nksuks ifjokjksa dh xfjek ,d nwljs ds fy;s cuh jgs] rFkk fny esa lg;ksx dh HkkoukA lg;ksx vkSj viuRo dh Hkkouk e/kqj lEcU/kksa ds lkFk gh c<sxhA vkSj e/kqj lEcU/k tc gh dk;e gks ldrs gSa tc ,d nwljs ds fy;s dVqrk u gksA fdlh izdkj dh dVqrk vkus ij o/kw ds vkil esa ifjokjksa ls rks lEcU/k fcxM+rs gh gS oj o/kq esa vkil esa Hkh njkj iM+ tkrh gSA blds fy;s fookg lEcU/k djus ls iwoZ ;fn lkekftd ]ikfjokfjd o vkfFkZd fLFkfr Li"V dj yh tk;s rks ifjokj ekufld :Ik ls ml ifjfLFkfr;ksa esa vius dks <kyus dks rS;kj jgasxsA tgkWa rd gks lds lac/k vius tSls yksxksa ds chp gh dfj;sA ;fn vki O;kikjh oxZ lss gaS rks viuh iq=h ds fy;s ;k iq= ds fy;s fookg lEcU/k O;kikjh oxZ esa gh dfj;s O;kikjh oxZ dh dU;k ds fy;s ukSdjh is'kk yksxksa ds chp rky esy fcBk ikuk cgqr dfBu gksrk gSA pwWfd viokn lHkh txg gksrs gSa fofHkUu ifjfLFkfr;kWa ;fn vuqdwy gqbZ rks dU;k viuk ysrh gS ;fn izfrdwy gqbZ rks vlUrks"k O;kIr gks tkrk gSA lkFk gh ;fn vkfFkZd ifjfLFkfr;ksa esa vf/kd QdZ gqvk rks ,dne ijs'kkuh iSnk gks tkrh gSA blds fy;s vko';d gS fd nksuksa ?kjksa ,d nwljs ds vk; dk eksVk Kku gksuk pkfg;sA

       cgqr ls oj i{k okys iq= ds fookg ;ksX; gksus ij fdjk;s dh dksBh vkfn dks viuh dg dj Hkko c<+krs gSA lkFk gh ;fn edku ekfyd dh dkj vkfn dks Hkh viuk gh crk nsrs gSA rFkk edku ekfyd dks fdjk;snkjA f'k{kk lEcU/kh tkudkjh Hkh iwjh vkSj lgh nsuh pkfg;sA D;ksafd cgqr ls ifr iRuh ds rykd blh vk/kkj ij gksrs gS fd ifr iRuh dk 'kSf{kd vuqikr Bhd u gks rks oSpkfjd erHksn iuirs pys tkrs gSaA ;fn nksuksa ds 'kkSd vkfn ds fo"k; eas Hkh igys irk yx tk;s rks cgqr gh vPNk jgrk gSA

       nku ngst dh ek=k igys ls gh r; jguh pkfg;sA viuh gSfl;r ls vf/kd ckr ugha djuh pkfg;sA dU;k o oj esa ;fn dksbZ 'kkjhfjd nks"k gks rks og Hkh vkil esa crk dj gh fookg lEcU/k djus pkfg;sA ugha rks ckn esa dU;k okil ?kj vk;s ;k rks oj i{k okys okil Hkst nsa ;k dU;k oj esa nks"k ikdj okil tk; nksuksa fLFkfr gh ijs'kkuh iSnk djus okyh gSA

dgha ,slk u gks fd vkidks ;g lkspus ij etcwj gksuk iMs+A fd csVh blls rks dqaokjh Hkyh FkhA ;fn dksbZ NksVh eksVh Hkwy gks tk;s rks vkil esa euksekfyU; ugh c<+kuk pkfg;s cfYd ;fn eqLdjk dj uezrk ls fLFkfr dks Vkyuk pkfg;saA tjk ls ngst ;k tjk ls tsoj ls iwjh ftUnxh ugh curh gSA ftUnxh [kq'kgky gksrh gsS ?kj ds okrkoj.k ,oa vkilh izse ls ngst vkSj oSpkfjd erHksn dh otg ls vc izse fookg c<+ jgs gSa lkFk gh f”k{kk ;k ukSdjh ds le; ifjp; ikjLifjd rkyesy cSBrk gS rks bldk Lokxr djuk pkfg;s